Dec 16, 2019BootsGod is in front of us like a boulder in the middle of the highway. Do I usually see and recognize His plan? No, I do not. My husband and...
Dec 2, 2019SighingSome of us do this thing when life is hard and there’s nothing we can do about it. For whatever it’s worth, I, Pat Durmon and retired...
Feb 4, 2019Beyond MeBeyond Me (in memory of Karen Hayes) Mindlessly scrolling, a familiar photo pops up with the death announcement of the queen of skinny...
Jan 14, 2019Shock Can Last for DaysIt’s late evening when I hear about a high school classmate’s death. I learn via an email. My reaction is Whaaaat? Thinking I’ve misread...
Dec 31, 2018Climbing UpwardOn my way to town, I drive past houses where smoke from chimneys curls upward. It’s comforting to watch the updraft. I suddenly recall...
Sep 24, 2018If You Died First, What Would You Want Me to Do?Jimmy, my husband, actually posed this question in the truck. I laughed and changed the topic. I could not deal with it at the time....
Sep 10, 2018Strange ThingsHard to label it. People are leaving. A friend’s son died, a friend’s husband died, a friend is moving away. It is the normal cycle, but...
Jul 9, 2018In Honor of Cannas and Jim BartonI am numb today, so I am up early and looking for my yard shoes. I’m not outside, because I want to beat the heat. Today it’s all about...
Jun 4, 2018The Death of a ParentI remember when working toward becoming a mental health counselor, I heard a professor say, “You can only go as deep with a client as you...
Apr 23, 2018DogwoodsThis one tree is symbolic for many people of the resurrection of the Christ. A cross is in the blossom. It usually blooms in early April,...